“We all know the difficulty of carrying out a resolve when we secretly long that it may turn out to be unnecessary.” — George Eliot, Middlemarch, I see this in my students when they would rather be at home eating lunch. I see this in my colleagues when they show up 30 minutes late to meetings. I see this in myself when I know I’m about to be put in an awkward situation. December 09, 2013 by Emily Becker